Tuesday, September 3, 2013

What Is Sexy?

This past weekend, Mom and I went to see 'The Mortal Instruments: City of Bones'. It was an amazing movie. Action, Adventure, Nephilim, Werewolves, Vampires and Romance.

What's not to love?!

Photo courtesy of Amstar Cinemas


And Jamie Christian Bower who plays 'Jace'.

Oh. Em. Gee.
 
This guy is so hot

I have seen him before and never really given him a second thought. Yes, he's handsome just looking at him, obviously. But in this movie, playing this character, he is undeniably hot.

The whole rebel with a heart of gold. Smartass who pretends he doesn't care but he actually cares so much. Cocky and vulnerable. And the way he looks at Clary.

Seriously.

Just the way he looks at her is so damn sexy. That alone makes him off the charts. (Move over Edward because Jace nails it.)

This got me thinking as to 'what is sexy?' What is it really?

Some people would say that dark hair is sexy. Or maybe blond hair. Some people would say that nice legs are sexy or a nice smile. Or some people would say that beautiful eyes or a great sense of humor is sexy. Or some people say intelligence is very sexy.

Know what I think?

I think all of these things are sexy. But I also think being sexy is more than how you look. It's how you carry yourself, things you say and what you do.

I think if you have self-confidence and are comfortable with yourself THAT is damn sexy. I think if you are a good father or a good mother THAT is super sexy. If you have a sense of humor, you are most CERTAINLY sexy. If you are intelligent and not afraid to show it, THAT is super sexy. Being kind and treating people with respect is TERRIBLY sexy.

Being sexy isn't just how you look, it's everything else that makes up you and who you are. And the good news is that there are ALL different types of sexy because there are all different types of people.

However guys, I would master the way Jace looks at Clary in 'The Mortal Instruments' just to make sure you have sexy nailed.




20 comments:

  1. I think sexy is a lot of things especially genuine kindness..

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    1. No doubt, Shanique!
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    1. Thanks for the compliment, LaTonya!
      Glad you stopped by for a visit! :)

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  3. I completely agree with you! It almost doesn't matter how a person looks, but how they act and what they do that makes them sexy to me.

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    1. Christi, I think sexy is different for everyone. I do honestly believe it is partly how you look but also how you act and what makes you who you are.
      Thanks for visiting! :)

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  4. Thanks for dropping by experiencedbadmom.com! The thing that struck me about your post was that you and your *mom* went to see this movie. How cool is that? My mom would probably only want to see any movie with Meryl Streep in it...

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    1. Katy, my mom is super cool! What can I say?!
      Thanks for stopping by! :0)

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  5. Haha, I couldn't agree more! I really need to check out Jace's smoldering eye gaze now, I am intrigued!

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    1. You better go check out Jace ASAP! You will thank me after you do. ;)
      Thanks for visiting! :)

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  6. Sexy is in the eye of the beholder...

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    1. Natalie, totally! Different things are sexy to different people. That is what makes it interesting!
      Thanks for visiting! ;)

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  7. Sexy is making me laugh...
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    1. No doubt, Molley! Having a sense of humor is wickedly sexy!
      Thanks for visiting! ;)

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  8. For me, sexy is hardly about how you look. Jace is HOT!

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    1. Yes, Gina!!! Jace is HOT! I mean seriously. Just thinking about that smoldering gaze...
      *Ahem.*
      Anyway, thanks for visiting! ;)

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  9. Thank goodness we all have different ideas of what is sexy, or else what a boring world we'd live it!

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    1. I completely agree!!
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  10. Sexy has everything to do with confidence and attitude! I think kindness and intelligence is crazy sexy too! An amazing father? The sexiest...

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